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<rss version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>heartbreaker, soul shaker / i’ve been told about you</description><title>that darn kat</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @katoleary)</generator><link>http://katoleary.com/</link><item><title>hello-kitty:

Tokidoki for Hello Kitty Cellphone...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kyzzjzc9kq1qzvk4co1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://hello-kitty.tumblr.com/post/440076697/tokidoki-for-hello-kitty-cellphone-charms"&gt;hello-kitty&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Tokidoki for Hello Kitty Cellphone Charms&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Submitted by &lt;a href="http://ismilenusmile.tumblr.com/"&gt;ismilenusmile&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;WANT.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/440078102</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/440078102</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 20:22:57 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Oh, thank God.  Kathy Griffin just showed up.</title><description>&lt;p&gt;LesBeStrong.com&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;ETA: OK, I’m not really happy with the depiction of lesbians/feminists so far.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/440032249</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/440032249</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 20:01:00 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Law &amp; Order: SVU</title><description>&lt;p&gt;You are terrible.  What is up with this franchise?  First Juggalos, now vampires?&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/440028682</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/440028682</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:59:26 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"I’m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes; I am out of control and at..."</title><description>“I’m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes; I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Marilyn Monroe&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/439823632</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/439823632</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:12:52 -0500</pubDate><category>spirit animal: found</category></item><item><title>"sammich haters would probably find it “awful” that i have a unicorn mirror in my bathroom and that i..."</title><description>“&lt;p&gt;sammich haters would probably find it “awful” that i have a unicorn mirror in my bathroom and that i have conversations with my cat about oprah and that i own three seasons of the hills franchise on bootleg DVD. sammich haters probably enjoy “hiking” and “rock climbing” and “john mayer” and fucking JAZZ.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;so you know enjoy your fucking GAME night at that WINE BAR with your friends who work at SUN MICROSYSTEMS in the SALES DEPARTMENT, sammich haters.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;i’m going to go spray paint my shoes gold and teach my cat how to tap dance.&lt;/p&gt;”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://sparkleneelysparkle.tumblr.com/post/439528855/im-not-done"&gt;SPARKLE NEELY SPARKLE!!!: im not done&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/439640093</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/439640093</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:33:19 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>I'm nervous for my Time Out NY interview this morning.</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://drunkbrunch.tumblr.com/post/439000316/im-nervous-for-my-time-out-ny-interview-this-morning"&gt;drunkbrunch&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The only interview I’ve ever given was in grad school, when IU went to the Final Four and I gave a sloppy drunken quote to the school newspaper who was interviewing at a popular sports bar.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Imagine my surprise years later when I Googled myself and found the quote. I don’t even remember  talking to the reporter.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I was interviewed for a local news segment on parietals at Notre Dame.  The part they actually included in the final cut?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“If you’re going to have sex or whatever, you can do it pretty much any time of day.”&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/439387338</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/439387338</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:46:59 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"This is the hard truth for progressive men who care about gender-based inequalities: When you leave..."</title><description>“&lt;p&gt;This is the hard truth for progressive men who care about gender-based inequalities: When you leave the public fight to others, you’re leaving it mostly to women—which, I don’t guess I need to point out to the intelligent and thoughtful men reading this site, is itself a perpetuation of gender-based inequality.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;I’ll give you a moment to contemplate the many ways in which treating feminism as “woman’s work” is some fucked-up irony, right there.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;Now here’s the other thing about leaving the rectification of gender-based inequalities to the ladies: Misogynist men don’t respect women. They don’t listen to women; they won’t acknowledge a woman’s authority on her own lived experiences; they’re not going to learn anything from women, and certainly not feminist women.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;Men who think women are &lt;i&gt;less than&lt;/i&gt; need to hear that they’re terribly, infuriatingly, and demonstrably wrong from other men. Publicly. Passionately. As loud as the loud, &lt;i&gt;so very loud&lt;/i&gt;, voices on the other side. One of the ways their self-reassuring bullshit works is via the effective void of male dissension, which supports their erroneous belief that they are the “objective” arbiters of womanhood. &lt;i&gt;Well, if we’re so wrong, where are the other people [men] to say so?&lt;/i&gt; they wonder smugly.&lt;/p&gt; 

&lt;p&gt;They count on feminist men never showing up &lt;i&gt;en masse&lt;/i&gt; for the main event.&lt;/p&gt;”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/08/crank-it-up-to-11.html"&gt;Shakesville: Crank It Up to 11&lt;/a&gt; (via &lt;a href="http://amberlrhea.tumblr.com/"&gt;amberlrhea&lt;/a&gt;) (via &lt;a href="http://clingtomymouth.tumblr.com/"&gt;clingtomymouth&lt;/a&gt;) (via &lt;a href="http://ctrain.tumblr.com/"&gt;ctrain&lt;/a&gt;) (via &lt;a href="http://novazembla.tumblr.com/"&gt;novazembla&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/439299051</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/439299051</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 12:39:47 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>"Whatever, I’m sick of people rallying around boys who prey on girls.  I’m sick of mothers..."</title><description>“Whatever, I’m sick of people rallying around boys who prey on girls.  I’m sick of mothers clutching their pearls at the idea that their special little snowflakes could ever be punished for selling naked pictures of girls without the girls’ consent. I’m sick of “boys will be boys” and other forms of coddling. The kid will be a lost cause if everyone in his life makes excuses for him.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://ctrain.tumblr.com/post/437061151/whatever-im-sick-of-people-rallying-around-boys-who"&gt;Oh, for the love of dog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/439293861</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/439293861</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 12:35:50 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>fatmanatee:

OH MAN, you know what I forgot?  It’s getting warm...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kz1fass1vn1qz8u8ho1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://fatmanatee.tumblr.com/post/439095935/oh-man-you-know-what-i-forgot-its-getting-warm"&gt;fatmanatee&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;OH MAN, you know what I forgot?  It’s getting warm out right now.  And you know what that means?  Cats are fucking.  Those female cats are getting laid, man.  Laid so much that this one cat got knocked up by three different catbros WITHIN ONE LITTER.  And soon, shelters are gonna be up to their ass in mini-mews.  Last year at my shelter was one of the roughest they’ve had, and compounded by the introduction of a trap-neuter-release program for ferals in a nearby park.  So we had piles of kittens AND ferals.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So you might be wondering how you can help these purr muffins, and there is a way!  For one, you can help out with TNR programs in your town so we don’t have an enormous pile of babies to deal with.  But cats are gonna bone and we’re just gonna have to deal with it.  In that case, you can look into foster programs in your area and take in a litter to nurture until they’re old enough to adopt out.  It’s a fun time, I PROMISE.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Best post ever.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/439233496</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/439233496</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 11:49:53 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>A great article from America Magazine on Glenn Beck and poverty.</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.americamagazine.org/blog/entry.cfm?blog_id=2&amp;id=21159420-3048-741E-7761300524585116"&gt;A great article from America Magazine on Glenn Beck and poverty.&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://bmichael.me/post/439020215/a-great-article-from-america-magazine-on-glenn-beck-and"&gt;bmichael&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;But Glenn Beck is saying something else, which might get lost in the  translation: Leave Christianity.  Again and again in the Gospels,  Jesus points to our responsibility to care for the poor, to work on  their behalf, to stand with them.  In fact, when asked how his  followers would be judged, Jesus doesn’t say that it will be based on  where you worship, or how you pray, or how often you go to church, or  even what political party you believe in.  He says something quite  different: It depends on how you treat the poor.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;In the Gospel of Matthew (Chapter 25) he tells his surprised  disciples, that when you are meeting the poor, you are meeting him.   They protest: “Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry and gave you  food, or thirsty and gave you something to drink? And when was it that  we saw you a stranger and welcomed you, or naked and gave you clothing?  And when was it that we saw you sick or in prison and visited you?’ And  the king will answer them, ‘Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one  of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;But our responsibility to care for “the least of these” does not end  with simple charity.  Giving someone some money, or clothes, or  shelter, is an important part of the Christian message.  But so is  advocating for them.  It is not enough simply to help the poor, one must  address the structures that &lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;keep them poor.  Standing up for  the rights of the poor is not being a Nazi, it’s being a Christian.  And  a Communist?  It’s hard not to think of the retort of the great apostle  of social justice, Dom Helder Camara, archbishop of Recife, “When I  give food to the poor, they call me a saint.  When I ask why the poor  have no food, they call me a communist.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/439124755</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/439124755</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 10:25:43 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Seriously, though,</title><description>&lt;p&gt;it has been 60 degrees and sunny, and I found out at the doctor’s office yesterday that I have lost eight pounds since whenever I last got on a scale, and I am still having a bad week.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/438100003</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/438100003</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:50:51 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Jonah is Snoresville, however.</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Give him back to Riley.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437992822</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437992822</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:02:19 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Seriously, new life philosophy:</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;WWESD: What would Ella Simms do?&lt;/b&gt; I am writing it on my hand.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She would not give a flying meow about any of the junk I am thinking about right now.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437982708</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437982708</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:57:20 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>I need to be more like this lady.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kz1m9jMSOl1qzol74o1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I need to be more like this lady.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437959231</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437959231</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:46:31 -0500</pubDate><category>Ella Simms</category></item><item><title>I am not having a good week so far.  But it could be worse: I...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kz1lnr7QVY1qzol74o1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am not having a good week so far.  But it could be worse: I could have killed a man in a hit-and-run accident, only to fall in love with the victim’s nephew, who turns out to be a drug dealer, so then I break up with him, but he blackmails me into getting back together by saying he’ll go to the authorities about the accident otherwise.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437931734</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437931734</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:33:27 -0500</pubDate><category>90210</category></item><item><title>today's tumblr recommendation</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://thepoliticalpartygirl.com/post/437865130/todays-tumblr-recommendation"&gt;thepoliticalpartygirl&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://abbyjean.tumblr.com/post/437511808/todays-tumblr-recommendation"&gt;abbyjean&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;is the &lt;a href="http://thepoliticalpartygirl.com/"&gt;political party girl&lt;/a&gt;! here’s why:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;she has been going HARD on the obesity scare and body shaming and self-image &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;she stays in on a friday night to watch PBS about FDR, and blog about it&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;she’s devoted to health care reform and provides great insight and analysis on the issues&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;she’s been carrying water on ableist language issues&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;her hair is gorgeous&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;go forth! follow!&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Wow!  Thank you!  I’m blushing.  So, hi there, new followers.  I will try very hard to live up to the glowing image abbyjean has painted of me, although it is all true — especially the part about my hair.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Also, to everybody: I highly recommend following &lt;a href="http://abbyjean.tumblr.com/"&gt;abbyjean&lt;/a&gt; (and not just because she wrote nice things about me!) but because I am more aware of and educated on feminism, disability activism, racism, poverty, and so many other issues because of her.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I love both of these women.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437879461</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437879461</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:08:17 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>giftedboi:

nerdgasms:

bluebears:

whatwillsuffice:

Romy and...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kz16ido2XC1qadwnyo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://giftedboi.tumblr.com/post/437355062/nerdgasms-bluebears-whatwillsuffice-romy"&gt;giftedboi&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://nerdgasms.tumblr.com/post/437350721/bluebears-whatwillsuffice-romy-and-michele"&gt;nerdgasms&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://bluebears.tumblr.com/post/437342480/whatwillsuffice-romy-and-michele-know-where"&gt;bluebears&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://whatwillsuffice.tumblr.com/post/437335814/romy-and-michele-know-where-its-at-credit"&gt;whatwillsuffice&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Romy and Michele know where it’s at.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(&lt;a href="http://jezebel.com/comment/20292165/"&gt;Credit&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I tried to upload this to my FB but it wouldn’t fit, the error message said the image was either “too tall or too skinny.” Oh the irony.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;3&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Riiiiiiiiiiight!&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This is extremely relevant to my interests.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437439093</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437439093</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:11:59 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>orangutanne:

ctrain:

I like this Ocelot a lot.

</title><description>&lt;img src="http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kz171vh4p91qafi23o1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://orangutanne.tumblr.com/post/437355876/ctrain-i-like-this-ocelot-a-lot"&gt;orangutanne&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://ctrain.tumblr.com/post/437353147/i-like-this-ocelot-a-lot"&gt;ctrain&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I like this Ocelot &lt;i&gt;a lot&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437357657</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437357657</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 15:21:05 -0500</pubDate><category>meowertons</category></item><item><title>Anti-feminist rock-and-a-hard-place bullshit</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://morninggloria.tumblr.com/post/437255984/anti-feminist-rock-and-a-hard-place-bullshit"&gt;morninggloria&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sexartandpolitics.com/post/437253600/anti-feminist-rock-and-a-hard-place-place-bullshit"&gt;sexartandpolitics&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Why you gotta trust a man like that and get yourself raped/have your sexy text forwarded around?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;or, if you go the not trusting men route&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Why you gotta hate on men all the time?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This could be phrased better but I think you can see my point. Either you don’t trust any man ever and get labeled a man hating feminazi or you get blamed for trusting a man when he does something without your consent.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437270972</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437270972</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 14:19:21 -0500</pubDate><category>Danny gets it</category></item><item><title>(via morninggloria)
OK too funny not to reblog.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kz113idCqj1qadwxwo1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://morninggloria.tumblr.com/"&gt;morninggloria&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;OK too funny not to reblog.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://katoleary.com/post/437195040</link><guid>http://katoleary.com/post/437195040</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 13:22:29 -0500</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
